Could it be that your Life Purpose
is to meet your hardship,
your problems and your suffering
with dignity?

Your life belongs to you.
not because you do not deserve
any better, but
because you are the only one
in the whole world
who can make something of it
and in so doing,
fulfill your life purpose.

Your life is about so much more than what you do.
You are also here to become.
The potential for that transformation
lies hidden within the problems
you encounter.
And so your problems and challenges
are not here to hinder you,
But for you to
realize your Life Purpose

Your shadow
is not there to
create darkness,
but to enable you
to find your light
behind it.

Defining moments,
though sometimes shocking and traumatic,
are moments when you can re-define
who you can be.

Right now your power and freedom
lie in your ability
to define a new future rather than
 to linger on a past
that cannot be altered.

The care you give yourself
Reflects your belief
Of what you deserve.

In this life,
our ultimate task may not be
to find pleasure,
but to find meaning.

In truth, your destiny lies ahead of you like a path of sleeping seeds,
waiting for you to tend them with the water
of your consciousness.
You do not have to do that,
but then you must accept a life without flowers.

About Arjan Bogaers

As with many of us, my involvement in my current field of work is part by design, part steered by events and circumstances.

My younger years in the country of my birth (Netherlands, 1960) were dedicated to organic agriculture and bio-dynamic farming. This is what eventually also brought me to South Africa.

In my late 20’s I became aware of a different interest within me, and I spent the following four years learning and working as a hospital nurse in Cape Town and as a sales consultant with Weleda’s Natural Remedies’ Centre in the same city.

Several community initiatives in the country side of the Western Cape motivated me to move there at the end of 1992 and participate in a range of projects, such as a local children’s home and Waldorf School.

I was very fortunate to further my training in holistic massage and Reiki, and the highlight during that work was my ten-year position as the in-house therapist at Temenos Retreat.

As time went by however, I became severely hindered in the physical aspects of my work by a chronic lower spine condition as the result of an accident from many years before. This presented a defining moment for me, and an earlier wish to deepen my personal work with people became a necessity.

Training as a Life Coach through New Insights was the first step in redesigning my life, followed by a qualification in counselling through a UK institute.

The main theme I have encountered in my caring work is that there is a reciprocal relationship between the nature and severity of the challenges we encounter in our life and the strength and calibre of the inner potential we have for transformation. But it is often only with outside help that we can awaken that potential.

See also Themighty.com

Aside from my work, I greatly enjoy quality time with my wife Patricia, photography and reading astronomy, cosmology and philosophy.


“Each one of us, we have within us the resources to be at peace and fulfilled.
We encounter problems in life so that we may discover and embrace our
highest potential. It is in our heart and soul where we find that which makes
each person special and beautiful and shine with our own light.”


As a matter of your free introduction, I invite you to send me a 1 – 2 page confidential summary here, presenting your personal circumstances, your challenges and what you would want from this counselling. You will receive a response to your letter within three working days.

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